Path of success

WhoAmI
Mar 26, 2020
3 min read

As humans,we cherish for a happy life.This happy life is a chain reaction.Happy life demands success.Success is supplied by experience. Experience is the by-product of time and hard-work.

All people will start this process but only a few gain success,all others are left in vain.

Why this chain reaction is broken in the middle?

Where we really make mistake?

In my point of view success involves three phases ,one should get through all these phases to enjoy success.

Honeymoon phase
Tunnel through phase
The break of dawn phase

The one who fails are get caught in 2nd or 3nd phase.

Let us know what these phases implies

1. Honeymoon phase

This phase is all easy to enter and we love to do the work we wish for.So every human will enter into this phase.This phase is nothing but clever decision with quick action.

This entry into this phase is because of our own desire towards something or successful,inspirational ,overwhelming action or disquisition of someone or by both desire and disquisition.

This will boost us for somewhile ,

But likewise all married people say that at some point even the happiest honeymoon must end,

Likewise all our external inspiration and successful stories stop triggering our mind at some point.

Without any further inspiration driving us in our mind we enter the tunnel through phase.

2.Tunnel through phase

As the name suggest it is the darkest (a tunnel) phase of all with 0% of external inspiration .We should dig our-self out from darkest path of the tunnel to the other end of the tunnel where we can see the light,which is the glow of success.But we can only see the glow of success, not the feel of success until we get out of the tunnel.

This phase leaves us with deep darkness of fear, frustration, depression, apathetic neagtive stuffs which ultimately makes many of us to break the chain here.

Honeymoon phase is mainly driven by others success and inspiration but tunnel through phase can be dug out one and only by our own questions which we ask to our-self when we lose hope?

1. What I gonna get when I break this down now?

Pain and suffering

2. What I gonna gain after getting through this phase?

Success and happy life

This answer gives self- motivation,discipline and patience for continuous and consistent hard-work.

At last when we fall out of the tunnel might wouldn't directly hit success ,many times we may bounce back to the tunneling phase. Some of us break the chain here thinking that even-though we tasted the success we couldn't get it in hand.

3.The Break of dawn phase

Success is always seen in progress.

The progress always has both positive and negative results at first. If we see negative result and stop the effort the progress will also stop. But those who sees the positive result will wish to quench their

Thirst for Triumph and get back into the groove.Even if they bounce back to the tunnel phase they know how to dig it out.

They feel comfortable at what they are working on.

So ultimately the dawn breaks and they enjoy the light of success.

Honeymoon phase - ease of entry

Tunneling phase - struggle we face

The break of dawn phase - taste of success

Path of success with a success story:

(Honeymoon phase)

Brain Acton and Jan Koum are one such example for success

Both of them struggle a lot before joining Yahoo Inc.They worked for 9 years together in Yahoo Inc .They desired to make something big so they resigned yahoo.Inc.

(Tunnel through phase )

They applied for Facebook and got rejected .They applied for Twitter and got rejected. Brain acton lost his money in 2000 bubble burst .

So they decided to start their own messaging service which was none other than our famous "Whatsapp". They faced financial crisis and crash after 2 years but they saw positivity in their work and managed to dig out of it.